When my son’s best friend walked into his funeral wearing a bright red dress, I almost asked the funeral director to take him outside.
My husband was already on his feet.
Daniel had stood up so fast the folding chair behind him scraped across the floor. His jaw was clenched. His hands were shaking at his sides.
“What is he doing?” Daniel hissed.
I grabbed his sleeve.
“Please. Wait.”
Every head in Grace Community Chapel had turned toward the back door.
A hundred and forty people dressed in black and gray and navy.
And standing in the aisle, holding a folded piece of paper, was Theo Mitchell. Eighteen years old. Six foot one. Wearing a simple, knee-length red dress. And black dress shoes. And the same navy tie he wore to prom, knotted around his neck, over the dress, like he didn’t know what else to do with it.
The whispers spread across that chapel like wind through a cornfield.
Daniel’s older brother, Rick, leaned across the pew.
“What on earth is that kid doing?”
I didn’t have an answer.
Ten feet in front of me, at the front of the chapel, was my son’s coffin.
Jack Harris. Eighteen years old.
He died seventeen days after his eighteenth birthday. Fourteen months after his doctor sat us down in a little gray room at Children’s Hospital and said the word osteosarcoma.
And the boy who’d been his best friend since they were seven was standing in the aisle at his funeral in a red dress.
My first thought was that Theo wanted attention.
My second thought was worse.
Maybe something had happened between them. Maybe they’d had a fight. Maybe this was some kind of cruel, strange statement.
I leaned over to two of Jack’s friends from school sitting in the pew behind us.
“Did something happen between Theo and Jack?” I whispered. “Before?”
Both boys shook their heads immediately.
“No, Mrs. Harris. Nothing like that. I swear.”
Theo walked slowly down the side aisle. He sat down in the very last seat of the third row, near the wall. He folded his hands in his lap so tightly his knuckles went white.
He didn’t look at anybody.
Daniel was still half standing.
“Laura, this is our son’s funeral,” he said. His voice cracked. “Our son’s funeral.”
“I know,” I said. “I know. Please. Just sit down.”
He sat.
But I could feel him trembling next to me through the sleeve of his suit.
My name is Laura Harris. I’m forty-six years old. I’m a respiratory therapist at a hospital in Columbus, Ohio.
And for the next twenty minutes, I sat in that chapel believing the boy I’d loved like my own son was about to humiliate us on the worst day of our lives.
I had never been more wrong about anything.

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