“What Are You Doing? This Is My Home!” — How One Woman Returned From Work to Find Her Ex-Husband Living in Her Apartment
For nearly a decade, Anna lived in a marriage that slowly stripped away her confidence, her health, and eventually her sense of safety. Her husband, Dmitry, had once been charming, attentive, even gentle. But as the years passed, the man she married disappeared, replaced by someone bitter, controlling, and violent in ways that didn’t always leave bruises — but always left scars.
His mother, Galina, only made things worse. She treated Anna not as a wife, not as a human being, but as an unpaid servant living on borrowed time. Every paycheck Anna earned passed through Galina’s approving hands. Every step Anna took outside the apartment required an explanation. It was a household run like a dictatorship, and Anna had been its prisoner.
But one day — after ten years of swallowing pain — she reached her breaking point. And the moment she finally reclaimed her life, she never imagined that three years later, the past she escaped would show up at her door, with a locksmith and a plan to take everything back.
This is her story.
A Decade in the Shadow of Her Marriage
Anna was 25 when she married Dmitry — a bright-eyed young nurse with dreams of a warm home, a loving husband, and a peaceful life. But the reality she walked into was far from the picture in her mind.
From the beginning, Galina inserted herself into every aspect of their marriage. She held a firm belief that “women must obey” and she expected Anna to fall in line.
At first, Anna thought it was cultural rigidity, something she could navigate politely. But it spiraled quickly.
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Galina took Anna’s bank card “for safekeeping.”
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Dmitry refused to help with bills, claiming, “My mother handles everything.”
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Friends slowly disappeared because Dmitry accused them of “corrupting” her.
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Family visits were limited.
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Privacy became nonexistent.
And then came the drinking.
Dmitry’s “boys’ nights” became a regular occurrence — full of cheap vodka, loud laughter, shouting matches, and slammed doors. He drank until morning, slept until noon, and blamed Anna for his headaches and hangovers. She walked on eggshells, terrified of triggering another outburst.
Galina, instead of helping, insisted her son was a “good man” and accused Anna of being ungrateful.
“You should be taking care of him,” she would hiss. “If he yells, it’s because someone provoked him.”
Someone.
Always Anna.
Years of stress broke down her body. Her weight fluctuated, her skin ached, her hair thinned. She looked in the mirror one day and didn’t recognize the tired, hollow-eyed woman staring back.
That’s when she knew —
If she didn’t leave now, she wouldn’t survive this life at all.
The Divorce That Felt Like a War
Leaving Dmitry was not simple. It was a battle that turned into a siege.
When Anna finally filed for divorce, Dmitry reacted with rage — shouting at her, stalking her workplace, showing up at her parents’ home, demanding access, demanding control, demanding she return to “her duties.”
And then came the worst moment:
Dmitry refused to move out of her apartment.
“This is your apartment,” he told her, “but it’s our marriage home. I have rights.”
Rights to her space.
Rights to her peace.
Rights to her safety.
It took days of arguments, tears, and finally, the intervention of the local police officer to remove him. The court later ruled clearly: the apartment belonged only to Anna, and Dmitry had no legal claim to it.
After the divorce, Anna rebuilt her life piece by piece:
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She got promoted at work.
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She transformed her physical health.
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She decorated her home the way she wanted.
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She slept peacefully for the first time in years.
She expected that chapter of her life to remain closed — sealed by time, distance, and legal paperwork.
She was wrong.
A Normal Workday Turns into a Nightmare
Nearly three years after the divorce, Anna walked home after a quiet shift. She rode the elevator up, thinking about dinner, groceries, and weekend plans.
But the moment she stepped onto her floor, she froze.
Standing at her front door were Galina and a man in a blue uniform — a locksmith. The man knelt beside her lock, tools spread on the floor, as he worked methodically at the mechanism.
Galina hovered over him, tapping her foot impatiently.
“Do it faster,” she demanded. “We’re not waiting all day.”
Anna’s breath caught in her throat.
Her first instinct was confusion —
Then fear —
Then anger boiled up inside her.
She marched forward.
“What are you doing?!”
Galina didn’t turn around. Not at first.
“We came to take what belongs to us.”
“This Is My Apartment!”
Anna’s pulse thundered in her ears.
“What are you talking about? I divorced your son three years ago. This apartment is mine!”
Galina finally looked at her — with an icy smirk Anna remembered too well.
“Half of this home still belongs to Dmitry. And he’s moving back in.”
Anna could barely breathe.
“How dare you. You have no right to—”
Galina cut her off.
“My son lived here. That gives him rights. Now step aside.”
Anna’s eyes darted to the locksmith, who was still working the lock.
“Stop!” she shouted. “This is illegal! You cannot break into my home!”
The locksmith glanced awkwardly between the two women.
“She said her son owns the place,” he muttered, unsure.
“He doesn’t!” Anna snapped. “And I have documents to prove it!”
But then something happened that turned Anna’s blood cold.
Galina leaned down and hissed to the locksmith, thinking Anna couldn’t hear:
“Do it faster. She must not see what’s inside.”
Inside?
What did that mean?
A chill slid down Anna’s spine as she noticed something she had missed before — a faint smear of dirt on the doormat, like someone had wiped dirty shoes before stepping inside.
Her stomach dropped.
The door…
had been opened before.
“You’ve Already Been Inside My Apartment?!”
Anna staggered forward.
“You were inside? You’ve been in my apartment?!”
Galina went pale for a split second — then recovered with a smirk.
“We have the right,” she repeated calmly.
That was the final straw.
Anna shoved past her and grabbed the doorknob.
The door opened.
Not from the locksmith.
Not from force.
It was already unlocked.
And the sight inside made her knees give out.
The Living Room That No Longer Looked Like Hers
The place she had lovingly rebuilt — the sanctuary she created after years of chaos — looked like a stranger’s messy weekend hideout.
Shoes that weren’t hers in the hallway.
Grocery bags from stores she never visited.
Jackets tossed over her sofa.
Beer bottles on her kitchen counter.
And in the middle of the living room —
sitting comfortably on her armchair —
was Dmitry.
With him sat a young woman — his girlfriend, maybe twenty-five, legs crossed, scrolling on her phone as if she lived there.
Dmitry smirked when he saw Anna.
“Oh look. The queen is home.”
Anna felt the room spin.
“What are you doing here?”
Dmitry stretched lazily.
“Half of this place is mine. We’re moving in. Mom’s changing the locks. You can go wherever you were going.”
The Strength She Thought She Lost
Three years ago, Anna would have cried.
Begged.
Panicked.
But she wasn’t that woman anymore.
She pulled out her phone.
While Dmitry kept talking — mocking, taunting — Anna calmly dialed the police.
Galina exploded.
“How dare you! He is her husband—”
“Ex-husband,” Anna corrected. “Legally evicted. And trespassing.”
The young girlfriend stood up, suddenly uncomfortable.
Dmitry’s smirk faltered.
“Don’t start drama,” he warned.
But drama had already arrived.
Within minutes, police officers were at her door.
The Moment Everything Turned
The officers surveyed the scene, listened to both sides, examined the locks, and reviewed the documents Anna kept neatly filed for emergencies she hoped would never come.
They read the divorce ruling.
They read the eviction order.
They read the ownership documents.
Then one officer turned to Dmitry.
“Sir, you have illegally entered another person’s home. You need to come with us.”
Dmitry exploded.
“What?! This is my place! I lived here!”
“And you were legally removed,” the officer replied. “And you were warned never to return without permission.”
Galina began shouting, her voice cracking with panic.
“You can’t take him! This is a mistake!”
But it wasn’t.
The officers escorted Dmitry out as he shouted for his mother to “fix it.”
The locksmith, trembling, apologized and insisted he was misled. The officers warned him he could face charges for breaking and entering.
Galina, pale as chalk, sank into a chair and whispered:
“We thought he had the right…”
He didn’t.
He never had.
A Life Reclaimed
After the police left, after the chaos settled, Anna walked into her apartment and locked the door — this time, with shaking hands but a steady heart.
She looked around at the mess Dmitry had brought into her home.
But instead of crying, she felt something else rising inside her:
Pride. Strength. Freedom — again.
She had escaped them once.
Now she had defended her home, her peace, and her future.
And this time, she knew something for certain:
They would never cross her doorway again.
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