I didn’t stop there.
I logged into my American Express account. My mother was listed as an authorized user. I’d added her four years earlier, when she said she needed a card “just for emergencies,” because her own credit was “a little damaged.”
I scrolled through the last month of charges on her card.
Nordstrom. $340.
A spa in Fort Mill. $185.
Royal Caribbean Cruises. $3,218.
My hands went cold.
She’d charged the cruise to my card.
I’d never once looked at her charges. I just paid the whole bill every month without reading it, the way I’d done everything else for nine years. On autopilot.
I scrolled back further. Another $2,700 from a Royal Caribbean “deposit” in January. Excursion packages. A drink package. A balcony upgrade.
The whole cruise she was too busy packing for to help me. I’d paid for it.
I removed her as an authorized user. The screen asked me if I was sure. I was sure.
Then I did one more thing. I sent an email to my attorney.
Her name is Leah Castellano. She’s a family and estate lawyer in Charlotte who drew up my will when Lily was born. I’d gone to her office in South End when I was eight months pregnant, sitting in her leather chair with my feet swollen up like balloons, and I’d signed a will that named a guardian for my daughter in case anything happened to me.
I’d named my mother.
I lay in that hospital bed at eleven o’clock at night and thought about what would have happened if that semi had hit me two feet further to the left.
My daughter would have gone to a woman who chose a cruise over her.
I typed the email slowly, one word at a time. My head was pounding.
“Leah, I was in a car accident yesterday. I’m okay. Lily’s okay. I need to change my will and my guardianship designation as soon as possible. I also need help with a few other financial matters involving my mother and sister. Can you come to the hospital? I’m at Atrium CMC, room 614.”
She wrote back at 6:15 the next morning.
“I’ll be there at noon. Don’t sign anything for anybody until I get there.”
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