Margaret Monroe didn’t try to take over my life. I want to be clear about that.
She could have. She was one of the wealthiest women in central Ohio. She’d been the chairwoman of Monroe Savings Bank for twenty-six years. She owned the controlling share. She sat on six boards. She could have bought me a house with one phone call.
But that first morning, sitting at my wobbly card table, she asked me what I wanted.
“I want to finish nursing school,” I said. “I want to do it myself. I want Grace to see me do it myself.”
Margaret looked at me for a long moment.
“Caleb said you were stubborn,” she said. And for the first time, she smiled.
So she helped in the ways I let her.
She paid for Grace’s daycare at a real preschool, with a playground and a reading corner. She set up a 529 college savings account in Grace’s name. She drove the three hours from Lancaster to Indianapolis every other Saturday, and she sat on my floor and played with Grace’s dollhouse in her wool coat and her pearls.
Grace called her “Nana Mags.”
I finished my associate’s degree in nursing at Ivy Tech two years later. I passed my boards on the first try. I got a job as a registered nurse in the cardiac unit at Methodist Hospital. Days, finally. $31 an hour.
Margaret came to my pinning ceremony. She sat in the front row next to Grace and cried harder than I did.
Afterward, she handed me an envelope. Inside was a single photograph. Caleb at twelve years old, in a Little League uniform, grinning with a missing front tooth.
On the back, in Margaret’s elegant handwriting: “He’d be so proud of you. So am I.”
For five years, Margaret Monroe was the closest thing to a mother I had.
She never once asked me about my parents. She knew. Of course she knew. Lancaster is a small town. She knew exactly who Richard Hart was. She knew he’d spat on the sidewalk in front of her bank.
Once, when Grace was seven, I asked her.
“Do you hate my father? For how he talks about your family?”
Margaret was quiet for a long time.
“No, Evelyn,” she said. “My son closed that plant and sent seven hundred families into the worst Christmas of their lives. Your father has every right to his anger. I’d be angry too.” She paused. “But I hope someday he’ll be able to see who Grace is. Instead of whose she is.”
Margaret Monroe died last March. In her sleep, at her house in Lancaster. She was eighty-seven.
Arthur Benning called me the next morning.
“Evelyn,” he said. “I’m so sorry. She loved you both very much.” He paused. “I need you to come to Lancaster for the reading of the will. There are some things you need to understand.”
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