The first months at home were the hardest of my life.
I couldn’t recognize faces. I couldn’t read. I couldn’t see my own reflection. I couldn’t find the coffee mug I’d put down ten seconds earlier.
Once, I spent forty minutes on my hands and knees on the kitchen floor looking for an earring. I finally gave up and sat against the dishwasher and sobbed. Not because of the earring. Because of everything the earring meant.
Ashton found me there when he got home.
He didn’t say anything. He just sat down on the floor next to me. He put his arm around me. And after a while, he ran his hand slowly across the tile until he found it, under the edge of the stove.
He pressed it into my palm.
“Got it,” he said. “Want me to put it in for you?”
“No,” I said. “I want to do it myself.”
“Okay.”
It took me two full minutes. He waited the whole time.
Ashton is a project manager for a construction company. He builds things for a living. And in those first months, he rebuilt our whole house for me.
He moved every piece of furniture against the walls so I wouldn’t trip. He put little rubber bumps on the microwave buttons. He labeled every spice jar in the kitchen with raised dots from a label maker he ordered online. He memorized the bus routes so he could teach me which stop was ours.
He set up the voice assistant on my phone. He taught me how to make it read my texts out loud.
He took over every bill in our house, too.
That was a big thing. Because there were a lot of bills.
The ambulance alone was four thousand two hundred dollars. The hospital stay was over two hundred thousand before insurance. Then the rehab facility. The physical therapy. The occupational therapy. The neuro-ophthalmology appointments. The orientation and mobility instructor who taught me how to use a white cane.
I used to be the one who handled insurance billing for a living. Now I couldn’t even read the statements.
Ashton sat at our dining room table every Sunday night with a stack of envelopes and a calculator. Explanation of benefits forms. Claim denials. Appeal letters. Late notices.
He read every one of them out loud to me. Every single one.
“I want you to know where every dollar goes,” he said. “It’s your money too. It’s your body.”
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